feminism

Hal-hal wanita sahaja.

by chics on Tuesday, 4 January 2011 - 12 am · 32 comments

in feminism,personal opinion,review

As per title, this entry is meant  for women. Kalau bukan wanita tapi nak baca jugak, read at you own risk.

I was in a very bad mood yesterday despite it was supposed to be one of the happy days. Dia punya emo sangatlah menggila sampai semua orang yang tak bersalah aku rasa nak maki. Last-last I managed to calm myself down after talking to someone on YM.

And today I finally found the reason behind the kenagaan. Hari ini bedera merah telah naik.

Which is so weird to certain people. Maybe to them takde kaitan dan itu adalah saiko semata-mata. But yesterday, I did lots of exciting things which was supposed to make me happy instead aku angin tak pepasal. Not only yesterdayla, selalunya macam tu jugak bila dah dekat menstrual time.

Anyway, because today was my first day adalah sangat penat. Which is normal la kan. Hari ni aku ok lagi, second day tu yang aku malas sedikit because despite saiz badan aku yang katik dan renek ini, my mesntrual flow adalah sangat tidak berkadaran dengan saiz badan. Dahla lama pulak tu.

Ianya menyebabkan tak suka yang amat sangat sebab ada harapan akan bocor. Tapi yang paling komfem bila tidurla. Sekali cuci cadar ok la kan, tapiiiiiiiiiiiiii kalau setiap hari selama 3-4 hari nak cuci boleh menyebabkan amarah. Kadang-kadang kalau ingat letak kain batik, tapi selalunya tak ingat hehehe.

That’s why I am very picky when it comes to choosing my sanitary pad.

Masa sekolah pakai whisper, lepas tu macam dah tak best je whisper ni, tukar to Laurier yang super slimguard tu. And then I saw adibah noor talking about Libresse.

What drawn me to try this product was not the spoke person [Adibah Noor and Yuna] tapi sebab bentuk pad tu. Hujung-hujung dia bentuk bontot ok! Haha

Taken from http://ibudalila.blogspot.com

Nampak tak hujung dia bentuk camana? Click picture for credit.

Being a cerewet person, I need two types of pad and pantyliner . Satu pad untuk pakai siang and satu lagi untuk malam. Sebabnya, yang siang nak yang nipis tapi boleh bertahan dan tidak merimaskan. Ada certain pad, pakai 1/2 jam pon rasa macam rimas, tak selesa. Yang malam kene panjang and tebal sikit pon takpe. Tak nak yang rimas jugak sebab aku malas nak bangun pegi tukar. Pantyliner untuk hari-hari terakhir.

Satu untuk siang dan satu untuk malam.

Oh, maybe ada yang tanya kenapa tak pakai tampon? I don’t really like tampon. Rasa macam ada kote tersekat di vajayjayku setiap masa. I likela kan rasa ada kote di situ tapi tak nakla setiap masa! Sesikit sudahla.

Ultra Thin

I use this one during the day-ada wings. So far, adalah sangat suka dan puas hati. Seperti yang tertulis, nipis, quick absorption dan cottony soft. Even yang tepi-tepi dia pun tak menyucuk-nyucuk. Tak suka yang tak ultra thin sebab seluar aku mostly ketat [bontot semakin membesar sobs] so kalau tebal rasa conscious plak, rasa macam berbontot itik [apakah?

Maxi

And this one is for night time, pun wings jugak. Tak boleh takde wing , aku ni suka mengganas. So kalau ada wings dia macam secure sikit. This one is quite thick but still selesa, tak rimas.

Yang paling penting, selama aku pakai ni yang ini, tak pernah bangun pagi menggelupur basuh cadar. Aku rasa sebab hujung dia yang berbentuk bontot tu kot.

Other reasons why I love this brand is because

a) Senang nak basuh – unlike the previous brand, nak basuh agak susah sebab banyak gel, yang ini senang gila!

b) Murah – kalau nak dibandingkan dengan some other brands, Libresse adalah murah. Murah dan berkesan, itulah yang kita mahukan! Tapi sorry ye, tak ingat harga.

Tapi, nak mencari brand ni agak leceh sebab Guardian and Watson don’t carry this brand. Aku pun tak tahu apasal. Nak beli, kene cari dekat Giant yang kadang-kadang aku malas. Sebab mula-mula nak beli pad je dekat Giant, tapi bila dah masukkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk entah apa-apa je lagi barang yang aku beli lepas tu. Hoh!

I do not know how good their pantyliners are sebab go for carefree, the only brand yang ada pantyliner for g-string. Kalau Libresse ada pantyliner untuk g-string komfem aku beli.

Tapi kalau sanitary pad dia, adalah terbaik setakat ini.

At least untuk vajayjay akula.

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Nama timangan – peti ais

by chics on Friday, 12 November 2010 - 12 am · 13 comments

in angst,feminism,nostalgia

I had a chat with an old friend today, we used to study together. So while I chatting I remembered another friend of ours, she mentioned that she saw the guy I am chatting with few months back. Both of them work in Europe.

Me: Kau ingat tak XXX. Hari tu korang ada lepak kejap kan?
He: Siapa? Tak kenallah

Me: Kenallahhhhhhhhh.

I tried to describe her to him tapi masih gagal. And then I remember a name that the guys used to call her back then. Tapi aku tak tergamak nak sebut sebab agak kejam. Tapi lepas usaha ku to refresh his memory fail I had to mention that name

Me: Ala, korang dulu panggil dia peti ais la!

Keji kan.

Sesuka hati je nak panggil orang peti ais. Just because she was big, she was called peti ais padahal dia sangatlah baik  dan tak menyusahkan sesiapa.

Lagi satu air cond, because the girl was huge and a bit dark, so menyerap haba, they called her air cond.

I was close with the boys back then and I will get pissed when they started to talk about peti aislah, air cond lah, orang utanlah. Dahla aku baik dengan bebudak yang dipanggil tu. Tapi bila aku marah diorang cakap sorry sambil gelak-gelak lepas tu aku pun terlupa nak marah sampai habis :P

The thing is yang bercakap tu pun lebih kurang je masalahnyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Dari peti ais sampailah ke komputer riba, semua ada.

Tak cukup dengan panggil nama, ada among then bet with each other to kenekan certain girls. Bukan kenekan macam ali setan tu, tapi kenekan dengan cara lain. Dengan cara memainkan perasaan orang.

Antara yang aku ingat

This one guy ask a girl. a friend of mine  for a date  [this girl also was given a nick name].  So they were supposed to go out during the school holiday, tetapi dengan dua syarat, the girl must bring her Mercedes. And she cannot tell anyone that they went out.

I did not know what happened during the date tapi the moment aku dengar kene suruh bawak kereta merc and tak boleh kasi tau i was thinking apa punya jantan kau ni?

Seres perangai macam lanch.

That friend of mine mula-mula tak kasi tau, but after the same guy buat hal with another girl 1, she spilled the story but she was not bitter nor angry at all. Rileks je.

Like we saidlah ” Aduh, dia kaya ok, setakat mamat tu nak berlagak naik merc bapak dia tak jadi kudis punya”. Well maybe sedikit pride tercalar because kau nak date aku tapi motiff tanak kasi tau orang?

Dan ada kawan aku yang jahat sempat berkata

“Cih, dia tu nak jadi kasanova kunun, kalau hensem takpe, iniiiii”

Haha.

I mean, we girls also gave names to guys tapi nama-nama tersebut hanyalah seperti smarties, lelaki melayu terakhir [wtf? Tapi budak ni dah keje pon officemate dia bagi gelaran ni ok!] dan err.. ok tu je yang aku ingat, tapi takdela nama yang teruk-teruk. Kalau tak suka sebut nama je terus.

My point is, why?

Adakah rasa macho, penuh kelakian dan boleh menukar rupa dan perangai kau yang jibraun tu kepada brad pitt dengan berbuat demikian?

Why? Whyyyy?

  1. which is also keji tapi aku tak tergamak nak cerita

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The camp

by chics on Tuesday, 9 February 2010 - 12 am · 8 comments

in emo,feminism,life

I am back!

Tapi masih penat sebab tu baru hari ni nak update.

Actually the camp was meant for girls from homes. Meaning girls from orphanages dan bukannya untuk aku but I was therelah.

Anyway it was all fun. I slept in a sleeping bag for two days with no bantal [tapi second night a friend of mine bawakkan bantal] and mandi dengan air yang bapak sejuk.

The most important past was, the girls – who came from not so fortunate backgrounds managed to have fun and learn lots of things.

Adalah menitik air mata when I talked to one of them and the told me

“Saya tingkatan 2 tapi saya sekolah OKU kakak, emak ada, tak kerja. Ayah tak tahu mana. Saya selalu rindu emak “

Imaginelah, you are disabled and your mum cannot afford to jaga you so she had to send you somewhere. You understand but at the same time you just miss her so much.

Aku ni ha, barulah beberapa hari tak dapat cakap and jumpa dengan emak dah rasa rindu, inikan pulak diorang. Lagi sedih they knew that their parent send them sebab sayang. Tapi soalannya, kalau sayang kenapa we cannot be together?

That girl asked me to write my name in a piece of paper along with my phone number. She promised to call me form the home. Sebak ok masa tu especially when she hugged me and asked me whether or not I will come to visit her in the future.

Another girl wrote me a poem

Some love lone

Some love two

But I love you

And that is you, akak Sharina.

Don’t forget me ok!

She told me she created that especially for me. I don’t knowlah but I feel flattered even it was so simple.

At the beginning, the girls were quite degil tak nak dengar cakap but after sometimes when you show them that you care for them, eat with them and luagh with them, they opened up dan then is when they show how loving, caring and smart they are.

Ok, aku pon tak tahu apasal aku tulis entry emo macam ni but I cannot help wondering kenapalah ada orang yang hanya reti produce kids but never want to think about what will happen to the kids sedangkan dia awal-awal dah tahu they cannot afford to give their kids even the basic things? Especially love.

I think that’s cruel.

Anyway, I hope they will benefit from the camp and despite being in their condition, they will not lose hope and believe, they too deserve to be happy and have fine things in life like everyone else.

P/S. Sorry, no pictures. I don’t feel comfortable to display them here.

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