I am addicted to twitter and I think you bunnies know that already. One of the twitterers that I follow is XiaXue.
Ehem, malu nak ngaku aku follow somebody famous but she is funny and harsh [i like haha], unlike some famous people yang give boring tweets.
Anyway, this was one of her tweets
The tweet immediately reminded of an uncle. Well, not an uncle per se but he’s my dad’s cousins or something like that so I had to call him uncle.
It’s true, every time he saw me, he would ask me that question
“Awak ni lelaki ke perempuann? Kalau awak bukan lelaki, takde bird, buktikanlah”
WTF right?
I remembered feeling angry and rotten that time. I always shouted
“Kita perempuanlah!”
And with a mocking face he will asked me to prove it.
I wanted to tapi adakah aku gila nak bukak sluar tunjuk? Nak tunjuk tetek, leper macam plywood je masa tu [macamla skang ni ada bonjolan besarkan haha]
As the result, I always tried my best to avoid him.
Never told anyone, including my mum coz I felt so ashamed. Ashamed sebab he asked me that question and ashamed because I dunno how will they react.
And maybe I was ashamed because he might meant it as a joke and everybody will see it as a joke too since he’s sort of an uncle to me, it’s just me yang ada rasa keji.
Coz he also did it in front of other people and they seemed ok about it. So maybe aku je kot kan?
But I think I told my bedmate, eh ye ke? Ntah tak ingat.
I always thought that his gesture was sick but reading it being said by somebody else made me realised the truth. He is sick and perhaps he is a pedophile too.
Yucks.
First of all, why the hell you asked such question to a kid? Dahla blood related pulak tu.
Thinking of it made me feel sick already. To think that I always went to his rumah and such.
And right now I feel harassed.
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masa aku n noy baca pun dah rasa scary..
i mean apesal pulak nak tanya2 n mintak proof kan..
we never know kan..
oh macam2 orang ada dalam dunia ini..
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chics Reply:
August 13th, 2009 at 8:59 am
Kan!!Apa ke perangai nak suruh orang buktikan ada pepet ke tak? Eeeee
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good thing u never tried to prove him wrong..
scary, sick uncle you have there babe..
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chics Reply:
August 13th, 2009 at 8:58 am
I knowww right. I wanted to but I was too disgusted maybe walaupun baru sekolah rendah
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my wife once told me that she is uncomfortable when this uncle of hers will always try to hug her & kiss her on the cheeks everytime they greet as they meet…. yer la kan, anak buah dh jadi bini org…. mana selesa mem saya…. i notice it too…. so, one day, infront of that uncle, when meeting him & his family, i did almost the same thing…. i hug his daughter & his wife & did kiss them on the cheeks…. after that he never try to do it again to my wife…. giler kan aku….
p.s. at the office listening to west montgomery…. best….
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chics Reply:
August 14th, 2009 at 11:01 am
If such thing happen to me now, I’ll tell that person kot rather than buat dekat anak2 dia. Trauma pulak budak2 tu, tak pasal-pasal je tak bersalah kene hehe
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He might be a pedo but he also might be seorang lelaki malaysia yang tak der political correctness. You know, dia maybe nak buat lawak, tapi lawak tak kelakar..you know lah!
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chics Reply:
August 14th, 2009 at 10:57 am
That’s not even tak kelakar, that’s rude and insensitive
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Heh. Aku baca gak twitter itu. Your tweets.
The thing is, aku rase bile kite dah besa baru kite boleh look back and realized all the time when we were small and grown men had acted or make inappropriate remarks pada kite, mentang2 la kite ni umur 8 tahun, that it is sexual harassment.
It also make me cringe trying to think that there’s a lot of sick people out there dan takut untuk beranak pinak. Huhu.
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chics Reply:
August 14th, 2009 at 10:57 am
Me too, ramai mansuia yang sick zaman sekarang.
Masa aku kene tu I felt marah and rotten but it didn’t occur to me it’s sexual harassment, yela sebab kecik lagikan, mana nak reti
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eh?? peliknya pakcik kamu tanya soalan2 macam tu pada budak kecik? bole masuk dalam kategori sexual harassment tuh….
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chics Reply:
August 14th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Itula pasal, masalahnye kan orang lain yang ada msa tu macam ok je. Aku je yang rasa macam taik
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eeeuuuwww
bad bad bad uncle!
peadophilllll
(urmm sorry for the spelling)
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chics Reply:
August 14th, 2009 at 10:54 am
Kannn!!! Eeeeeuwww
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kalau sayapun saya rasa harassed!
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chics Reply:
August 17th, 2009 at 8:55 am
Kannn!
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Been silent reader of your blog for the longest time but after reading this post i feel compelled to leave a comment.
How is it that your uncle was allowed to say such things to you! eeekkss!! It’s definitely harassment….oh my goodness. I would feel super traumatised.
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chics Reply:
August 17th, 2009 at 8:52 am
I knowww. I will try my best to avoid him whenever I saw him, tak sukalah!
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