Bongok

by chics on Monday, 27 July 2009 - 12 am · 45 comments

in angst,personal opinion

I am sure all of us know that Yasmin Ahmad passed away. Initially there were rumours about her death circulated around Thursday but she actually left 3 days after that.

I am sad, no more quality malay film and no more iklan raya/deepavali/cny yang best from her.

I happened to browse through a forum that discuss about the news. One message that cought my eyes were

“Sempat ke dia bertaubat? Keh keh”

WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?

Who the fuck are you to say such things, to judge people?

Are God? Do you know all the things that she did between her and her Creator?

Apa yang dia buat or sesiapa je buat, it’s up to God to judge.

Which reminded me of this one MLM yang ada mengeluarkan sort of slogan that sounded something like

“Melabur untuk syurga . Dengan duit keuntutngan boleh didermakan ke pada fakir miskin dan anak yatim”

I was like. wowwwwwwwwwwwwww! Sampai macam tu sekali kau nak tarik orang. Kalau ye pon nak derma or whateverbila dah kaya, perlu keeeeeeeeeeeee nak kasi tauuuuuuuuu. Dan komfemkah dan dan masuk syurga?

Ok, back to our main topic.

Apart from being stupid, the commentor on the forum are totally insensitive. What if, his mother or father dies,yang tentunya manusia, yang tentunya tak lari from doing mistakes and people ask that to his face

“Mak/ bapak kau sempat tak bertaubat? Keh keh?”

I bet that moron would go beserk.

Also, ada jugak yang tanya

“It’s  a she or he?”

Fuckla.

Does that matter ke?

She is already dead, perluke such question ditanya?

Plus, apa penting sangat benda tu dekat kau? Adakah dapat naik pangkat kalau tahu jawapan?

  • shelly

    aku mmg despise org2 bodoh mcm nih…

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      seriously!

  • ef

    masa hari yg dia collapse tu kan, otw aku blk keje, aku bukak la radio kan.
    Time tu Jac tgh komen pasal org kata Yasmin dah meninggal. Jac keep on saying "YA is still with us".

    pastu akak yg tumpang aku tu kan, dia pon tanye "YA tu sape? aku ckpla, she's one of the best director bla bla bla…" akak tu senyap. aku tau la dia tak kenal sape YA tu kan.

    tiba2 esok pagi otw gi keje, dia leh cakap "eh, orang kata YA tu lelaki."
    i was like…"err…ntah la kak. orang kata.saya xtau "

    macam…ehh engkau semalam tanye aku sape YA ? tiba2 pagi ni, ko boleh cakap macam tu pulak!

    and pagi tadi otw gi keje akak tu ckp lagi "hmmm dah meninggal ye YA tu…"
    aku nye respon "a'ah".

    ** sorila panjang lak komen aku ni. **

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Haa tula, tak tahu ujung pangkal terus nak skip pergi part tu kan!

  • http://www.amreez.com Iz

    lepas ni takde dah iklan Petronas yang best2 :sad:

    setiap kali hari raya ke, deepavali ke, krismes ke, cny ke, hari merdeka ke, aku mesti tak sabar nak tgk iklan Petronas
    .-= Iz´s last blog ..Rambut Clown =-.

    • divine

      betul2.. i always llok forward for petronas punya iklan raya doesnt matter apa jenis celebration pun… coz amat menyehtuk hati…

      • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

        Me too

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      aku ponnn, skang dah takde

  • http://darlingscorner.blogspot.com darling8tabby

    some people mmg damn gila! let her soul rest in peace la kan…
    al-fatihah..
    gonna miss her ads/filem oso :(

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      itulah. Yea, let her soul rest in peace

  • am

    referring to ayaq's comment;
    "My mom balik dari kedai tadi tanya saya, “mak dgq depa kata YA dulu laki? Pastu dia kawin dgn org Cina”.

    I was like WTF punya soalan ni. (of kos la tak kata wtf depan mak kan kang tak pasal2 rumah terbakar heheh)

    Tapi tu lah wtf. Tak pernah pulak dgq pasal benda ni, apasal bile dia dah takde baru nak timbul isu2 ni? Haih."

    actually isu ni dah lama ada. and bukan nak join the bandwagon mengutuk/buka aib YA, tetapi cerita itu adalah betul. tapi saya tak akan ceritakan bagaimana saya tahu.

    and i agree with most of u guys that we've lost someone as talented as YA. Talentime was the last movie i watched from YA and that will be her last masterpiece. Al-Fatihah.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Yes I know dah lama and I think lots of people know but like I said no needla to cakap true or not, it's not important at all, she's already gone. Respect her and respect her family.

      Tak pelu nak bukak aib orang, plus she's a very nice person.

  • dils

    There are a lot of people yg camtuh yang membuatkan kite tertanya-tanye busuknye hati die ni. And one of the reason why I kurang gemar forum is because these type of idiotic comments.

    It is a great loss to the Malaysian film and creative industry when she is gone.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Yang bagi komen macam tu pon, wahh kemain nak tunjuk pandai. Sometimes I do go to forums if I needed to find some info/solutions for certain things tapi bila dah sampai part memperkatakan hal orang ni memang tak boleh blahla kan.

      It is indeed a great loss.

  • ayaq

    My mom balik dari kedai tadi tanya saya, "mak dgq depa kata YA dulu laki? Pastu dia kawin dgn org Cina".

    I was like WTF punya soalan ni. (of kos la tak kata wtf depan mak kan kang tak pasal2 rumah terbakar heheh)

    Tapi tu lah wtf. Tak pernah pulak dgq pasal benda ni, apasal bile dia dah takde baru nak timbul isu2 ni? Haih.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      My mum asked me the same question. I told her, we dunno her side of the story

  • http:///comatosewithbraindamage.blogspot.com green apple

    chics,

    aku rasa by now ko dah semakin sedar bahawa ada sesetangah orang otaknya memang kat bontot.

    apa ko ingat kelakar ke org tu dah meninggal pun masih nak question kan if dia male or female. Kalau bukan female pun ape kaitan ngan kau??

    Ni la namanya manusia konon nak tazkirah lelebih padahal diri sendiri terang lagi bersuluh bodoh lagi mau tazkirah orang.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Aku dah lama tahu but everytime aku jumpa, aku tetap berasa amaze[ in keji way]. Masing-masing mengaku pandai, padahalllllllllllllll

  • intan

    “sempat ke bertaubat ?"How cud this moron said things like tht??.haih~asked ustaz first la before said words such thing like tht.ask ustaz why allah swt created people like her and wut allah swt will rewarded for people like her.
    RIP yasmin~we love you~

    bebeh i agree with u~hopefully time raye xde la cite polis sentri one 2 jaga yg tgh sebuk kejar penjahat sambil berdailog."tggguuuu!!jgn Lari!kalau lari ak tembak"~haih bangang!

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      No need even to ask ustaz, sebab dah sah-sahla itu semua terpulang pada Allah, ustaz pun tak boleh nak judge. Tapi betulla apa you cakap kan, there must be a reason kan.

  • http://xs2rockstar.blogspot.com rawkstar

    Al-Fatihah to Yasmin Ahmad.

    tapi memang kuang ajar la nk cakap mcm tu. org yg bagi komen tu tau ke dia tu sempat taubat ke tak? i hate judgmental ppl. hiyarks.
    .-= rawkstar´s last blog ..Kamu Ibarat Katak =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Al-Fatihah.

      Series bangang ok

  • http://www.amreez.com Iz

    diorang ni mulut celupar mentang-mentang la org tak nampak muka kat Internet ni ek. Suka nau judge orang as if diorang tu baik sangat je lagaknye.
    .-= Iz´s last blog ..Rambut Clown =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Tula, sembunyi berani la kannn

  • http://www.zuesarin.blogspot.com zuraida

    thats so insensitive…..especially when said towards one of the nicest person when she was alive….

    she had touched so many lives through her work and bridged through many cultures, i pray that her soul rest in peace through all the goodness her work has brought to us all these years.

    She will truly be missed.
    .-= zuraida´s last blog ..Heading to the Premiere's with my Blogger Babes… =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      That's why, so insensitive. These are the type of people who does not want to look beyond what ythey see, what was in front of the eyes. Tak nak fikir, tak nak accept something which is beyond normal.

      Kalau ye pon tak suka, no need to say such words, kan.

  • http://www.cikpid.blogspot.com cikpid

    aku pon agak benci ngan statement klakar ngeri cam "sempat ke bertaubat ?'

    org dh meninggal lagi nk di main2kan..x yah pikir psl org..pikir psl diri sirik aa..mana tau tgh taip2 nk melawak camtu termati plak..haa..sempat ke bertaubat org tu??

    mmg kehilangan besar aa..no more good films…
    .-= cikpid´s last blog ..I'm Back…. =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Tula, she already meet her Creator pon, juts let her be lah.

      Yeah , no more good film, lepas ni yang hanya akan ada, rempit, drift, cerita hantu kelakar dan sebagainya. eee

  • http://udaswoop.blospot.com uda

    ramai org dok sebok dosa pahala org lain, nilai dosa pahala kita dulu….

    p.s. she will always smile to people who smiles at her…. one of the nicest people i have ever met…. :-)

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Exactly –?>Tapi yang tengah type ni pun selalu lupa hehe

  • http://aizuddindanian.com Aizuddin Danian

    Religion brings out the best and worse in us.

    I had a few words to say about yasmin too.
    http://www.aizuddindanian.com/voi/2009/07/weve-lo

    RIP.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Yeah that's true, and many choose to complicate religion.

  • bebeh

    vavi betullah sapa2 yg buat komen mcmtu..

    tulah.. no more good quality malay movies.. lepas ni tinggal movie pasal mat / minah rempit jelah.. tak pun pasal anak mami.. or cerita hantu yg xdela scary mana pun.. jgn haraplah aku nak pegi tgk kat cinema.. time raya pun belum tentu.. hoh

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Itulahh, peluang aku nak pergi cinema tengok cerita melayu adalah sangat tipis sekarang. I did give some chances to toehrs tapi rasa macam nak cekik diri masa tengah tengok tu

  • http://psych0ticbunny.blogspot.com Kak Cik Lawa

    There was once a TV ad for a bookstore which made me so menyampah, ada tagline along the lines of : "membeli buku di kedai xxx selangkah mendekati syurga ". I felt like hello, beli buku tak baca ataupun beli buku, baca tapi lepas tu perangai masih juga macam gampang tiada faedahnya ok.

    The holier-than-thou smug fools who made the disparaging comments about the late Yasmin Ahmad tu macam lupa they are also mere humans, bukannya dewa ke apa nak cas macam bagos sangat. Have they not heard the saying do not speak ill of the dead? Memang bongok to the max.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Kedai mana tu? How can membeli buku at that kedai mendekati syurga, mana-mana kedai je pon sama asalkan ilmu, melainkan kedai buku porn haha

      Memang bongok but I bet they feel pretty smart when the type those words

  • http://ok-lah.blogspot.com Adam

    There will always be people with a holier-than-thou attitude and unfortunately Malaysia has loads of these people. Going to miss her movies and really creative and sentimental ads.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Unfortunately, yes. Will miss her too! I was sort of looking for the Hari Raya ad, so sadlah.

  • http://faiezspeaks.wordpress.com Faiez

    dumbfckr! This holier than thou attitude is making me sick to my stomach. Pissed me off too.

    Yasmin will always be remembered by me and Michal. God Bless her soul.
    Al-fatihah.
    .-= Faiez´s last blog ..Goodbye, Yasmin Ahmad =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      I've never met her but from her movies, her ad, I like her. May her soul rest in peace

  • pel

    It is such a big loss.. Yasmin is one of the reason I watched malay movies at cinema. Last time it's loloq now yasmin. Huu sedih. :sad:

    Eh anyway memanggg kepochi mak minah betul orang yang komen macam tu. huh.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Me too. Love her movies tapi Talentime I tak tengok, maybe I don't like the heroine hehe

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  • http://perempuanberemositinggi.blogspot.com Lee

    What’s important after a person passed away ialah dengan menyembunyikan keaiban si mati. Kita buka aib orang, Tuhan buka aib kita. We are not told to judge. Kematian sepatutnya dijadikan pengajaran untuk yang masih hidup, bukan untuk dijadikan bahan lawak. (Sorry komen ala-ala tazkirah sket.)
    .-= Lee´s last blog ..Sometimes the me inside talks a totally different language. =-.

    • http://www.chicsinred.com/blog chics

      Exactly! Bukan untuk dipersoalkan dan dipersendakan

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