She: I want a divorce babe
Me: Why?
She: Dia dah start perangai lama dia lah, cari perempuan. Aku dah tak tahan, I can’t event look at his face anymore. I don’t want to even balik rumah.
I don’t know what to type anymore. Yes, I despice him because of his pengote perangai. I even told her that I dislike him before they got married and she better think about spending her life with him together. I did that because I love her, I care for her and I don’t want her to get hurt, like right now.
But hearing that she is already went to pejabat agama and such, make me feel so sad. Lagi-lagi bila memikirkan anak dia yang umur tak sampai setahun.
I know her very well, she is the type of person who will give her very best for her family. Bukan jenis yang huha-huha tak tentu pasal dan bukan jenis yang kurang ajar. She is the type yang, bila dah kawen, dah ada family adalah seperti telah mencapai tahap nirvana.
Sometimes I just don’t understand kenapala ada lelaki yang sanggup buat macam ni as if they don’t have a mother, sisters or anak perempuan? Pelik jugaklah, nak kata bodoh, masing-masing mengaku pandai tapi small thing such as respect pon tak reti. Letih kan, kau cakap dekat orang, nak cari somebody yang memahami, berbudi bahasa, to get old together [ini semua ayat bila nak ngorat perempuanla ni] but when you finally find someone yang separuh mati sayang dekat kau, jaga kau, kau mentetaik. Then bagi alasan bukan-bukan.
But I have to say, not all man are irresponsible. There are men who are like gems, biarpun sekali pandang macam butiran pasir biasa[wahh ayattt haha]
One.
The wife got snatched in her car and she was traumtised. The husband, not only took leave to check on the wife and to comfort her but bought her a new car sebab dia tahu betapa traumatisednya wife dia.
I think that’s sweet coz dia tak perlu belikan wife dia kereta baru sebenarnya, cukuplah pujuk-pujuk lama-lama mesti wife dia ok. Maybe he wanted the wife not to feel takut-takut anymore and for safety purpose, he bought her a better car.
Two.
Both wife and the husband are working. But the wife works on Saturday. Knowing that the wife is tired and stress, the husband let the wife has Sunday for helself. He goes to the market alon, buy eveyrthing he needs and cooks lunch for her. The wife tak payah bangun, tido je sampai bila pun dia nak. Kalau nak breakfast ke apa, cakap je, he will serve it with a smile. And, he even washes the dishes.
The wife said she felt guilty doing that but the husband said ” Don’t be. Don’t be like every other couple where tugas masing-masing dah ditetapkan, isteri kene masak layan suami and vice versa. Marriage is about being together, tolerate each other and being in love with each other.
Bestkan kalau hidup semua orang macam tu, to be loved and appreciated by your loved ones. Yet, not everyone knows the meaning of love and appreciate.
I dunnolah. Sometimes I think people forget why they got married at the first place.
Bukan ke dulu orang tu yang kau gayut lama-lama dekat telefon sampai telefon berkuap? Bukan ke dulu orang tu yang buat kau senyum-senyum sendiri even kau tengah cuba concentrate buat kerja?
And bukankah dulu kau rasa, tak ada orang lain dah, dialah orangnya.
What happened then?
So why not, every time you got angryat your partner, every time you saw someone who is better looking with your partner, you sit down and think about all the nice thing that your partner have done for you.
Or about those old feeling when you saw that person smiling at you for the first time.
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