Perempuan- perempuan bodoh

by chics on Wednesday, 21 December 2005 - 8 am · 111 comments

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From far I could see someone with tudung in my house yard. Even though it is almost 1 year we didn’t see each other but her posture still stay vividly in my mind. Since I was fasting I asked her to stay for dinner.

“Why didn’t you call, like always?”
“Saje nak jumpa kau.Lama tak jumpa”

After eating my pair of eyes met her eyes. “So what’s up, you must have something important to tell me or else you won’t be on my doorstep”

“I came to you because I know you won’t judge me and you won’t say anything hurtful”. With that she shows me an ugly bruise on her porcelain arm. Revolting. I staggered.

“He did that to you? He shouldn’t have, he has no right to hit you”.
“I know but he apologized. Please don’t say anything bad about him. Whatever happens he is the one I chose to spend my life with”

I frowned. Other people would probably let out spiteful cursing to see one of their close friends in that condition but just say that I understand her feeling. Or perhaps I know how does it feel to be in her shoes. Not as in exact way but alike. Saying nasty thing about her loved ones wouldn’t help, it will only hurt her more.

“Perempuan bodoh” I said to her.
“Hah, engkau pon sama”

With that we laughed as if nothing happened.

Some women were educated up to the highest level but somehow because of 4 magic letters they become injudicious.

It’s not that they can’t think clearly. They understand that they are not supposed to be treated that way but to them, ah..come what may, I can still handle it. I rather be hurt physically rather than emotionally.

Come what may.

Foolish. The heart is still breathing even though there would be thousands bruises. The feeling is still blooming even though there would be thousands of words that stabbed like sharp knives. Despite the ache, that single name would not be missed in every single prayer, hoping God will bless him with best things He could offer.

As a friend who loved her with full of my heart, I should have advice her to do the right thing but who am I to say when at the end of the day she is the one who is going to make the decision, she is the one who wants to live her life.

“He shouldn’t do that to you”

She sighed. Perhaps saying I know.

“I love him”

I smiled.
I know my friend,
I so know.

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  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    9- hah, I shall suggest to her to take self defense lesson.
    Uda – tottemo!!!
    Chi – Ada org lagi sanggup kene pukul rather than hearing “I don’t love u anymore” or “I don’t want you anymore”
    kuman- kau lain kuman..kau seorang jejaka yang budiman..hohoh..eh mcm rhyme pulak.
    judd – ni sedih tipu-tipu ke betul-betul?
    Oreos- probably she just don’t want to make things worst kot..entah.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    WongAhBeng – for you kan, it’s 4 magic phrases instead of words. It’s “I love youlah beng!”.Haha..Amacam?
    b – seek anger management help?some people wants to improve some ppl are so comfy with the way they are.
    Si Nana- sayang, imagine if you are writing one.Bukan setakat berair je ok. Meh sini, lemme give u a hug.
    SuperfluousBabe – Amin
    paan -perhaps they know the other person would never have the strenght to leave them.

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • chics

    rine – that’s what i told her
    bobby- love is soooo blind. *sigh*
    syahbrat – someone u are close to?
    mysara- sayang,i concur to that and some are even proud of it.
    waris – like i said, she doesn’t want to seek for help.she just entahla..aku pon tak paham

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • http://excitingobservations.blogspot.com/ Oreos

    she knows. yet she probably will do nothing about it. there are so many like her *sigh*

  • kuman

    good to hear from u again chics my fren… or izzit me yg lame giler tak visit blog ko? hehehe anyways, love does not give one's right to hit or to abuse her/him physicaly even emotionaly…. i really wonder laa.. how could u even lay ur hands on ur so called "loved" ones??

  • http://scripturedlies.blogspot.com Chi

    Trade off ler.. agaknya masa time2 dia tak naik angin balak member ko tuh best giler kot.. tu pasal dia sayang sangat tue.. kita mana tau yer tak..
    I rather be hurt physically rather than emotionally
    ko blom kena belasah secukupnya lagi agaknya ekeke.. tu pasal ko cakap camtu.. aku pun belum penah kena belasah lagi sebenarnya. tapi aku dengar macam tak best jer..

  • http://udaswoop.blogspot.com/ Uda

    Love hurts….

  • http://hurnain.blogspot.com 9

    it happned to my fren once. but unfortunately for the bastard, my fren had a black belt in karate. her initial reaction to getting slapped by her ex was a knee to the groin and a kick to the head when he was down.
    it was almost funny.

  • http://cyclops07.blogspot.com paan

    hurting someone who love u so much?..
    take for granted?..
    hmmmm.. stupid act..

  • http://awana.blogspot.com SuperfluousBabe

    been there.. so i know the feelings. but hell i made my decision. and ALLAH helped me to see that my decision was rite.
    for yr friend… poor her n i trust she doesn't deserve that. but insyaALLAH one way or another… she'll find a solution for it.

  • Si Nana

    oh, mata aku berair bila baca entry ini. kerana aku juga salah seorang daripada perempuan-perempuan bodoh itu

  • http://www.terabot.blogspot.com b

    its up to that person actually, LOVE conquer it all…walau apapun pandangan kiter, but bila dia kata I LOVE HIM, what can say more..and one more thing, guys out there, saper yang tak panas baran, alhamdulillah but sape yang panas baran please learn how to manage ur anger (ANGER MANAGEMENT)..no offense..

  • http://wongahbeng.blogspot.com WongAhBeng

    sorry i dumb a bit…(little bit only!..) but what is the 4 magic letters aa?

  • http://mysara.scravius.com mysara

    well ppl do dumb things wen theyre angry..
    no one can really know whos wrong or right

  • syahbart

    remind me of someone..

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://judd.scravius.com/ judd

    sedey la pulak baca entry nih..isk isk

  • http://picturestaken.blogspot.com rine

    He shouldn't do that to her..
    *sigh*

  • kuman

    good to hear from u again chics my fren… or izzit me yg lame giler tak visit blog ko? hehehe anyways, love does not give one’s right to hit or to abuse her/him physicaly even emotionaly…. i really wonder laa.. how could u even lay ur hands on ur so called “loved” ones??

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