Husband snatcher

by chics on Friday, 23 September 2005 - 12 pm · 16 comments

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You know something, my flowery day suddenly turned to stormy day.

I got a called just now from a friend. We are not that closed but still friend. Before this every time we had a conversation she would not forget to asked me this question

“Chics, kau ade lelaki tak nak kenalkan dekat aku”

Hoih, kau ingat aku ni ibu ayam ke ape?

The first time she called after meeting somewhere in a club was around 3 years back. She was crying. Apparently her boyfriend left her for another woman. And the woman even have the guts to call her to say how much she loves my friend boyfriend. Since then she’s boyfriendless and kept nagging me to find him a boyfriend. Maybe she forgot that I’m working for employment company not match making agency.

Anyway, last month, things started to change. She’s seeing someone new. From her description, this guy is handsome, charismatic and just came back from overseas, his type of guy. The problem is he’s happily married with three kids, the eldest is standard four. Well.. the problem only occurred to me because she found there’s nothing wrong with that even he’s happily, I repeat happily married. I don’t know what to say but I told her I was not fond with the idea but it’s her life so she decide.

Anyway, she called me just now saying there are soooooooo in love like big red heart with thumping thumping sound. Usually when my friends calling me saying they are madly in love I couldn’t be happier but today, I feel like my body is going to explode, not in orgasmic way but in heated way. Now she is confused on where she stand, because like every other girl, she want a happy ending.

She: Apa aku nak buat ni?
Me: Asked him where you stand.
She: Ala , kalau dia tinggalkan aku?
Me: If he’s not sincere sooner or later it’s going to happen. He’s married remember? Bahagia plak tu. Wife dia tak tahu kan?
She: Chics, janganlah macam tu. Kau tak kesian ke dekat aku?
Me: *Sigh* Kesian tapi aku lagi kesian dekat wife dia. I mean, you been in the situation before. Someone amik boyfriend kau. You know how it felt. Someone dia dah ada anak lagi.Kecik kecik plak tu.
She: Betul but semua jantan single tak boleh harap. Aku tak kira dah laki orang ke ape ke, janji aku bahagia.
She : Hum..Apa nak buat ni semua dah takdir.Qada’ dan Qadar
Me: If I’m not mistaken, we can plan our destiny. You know he’s married from the first time you saw him, you should have stay away.
She: Hmm..
Me: Mak kau tau tak?
She: Tau, dia sebetulnya kesahlah tapi sebab aku nak jugak dia tak kisah dah. Dia ok, Cuma dia pesan,aku kene selalu mengalah.Dia cakap, kalau jantan bujang semua tak guna, laki orang pon tak apalah. Are you not happy for me chics?
Me: No. Am not. Sorry.

WTF la wey?

If that guy can do such things to his wife, there is a possibility for him to do such things to you.

I know that we went partying together and we bitched together but for you to ask me to be in your shoes is impossible.Sorry, I might seemed like happy-party-fat-wallet-husband-snatcher-kinda-girl that have a face stating “Hey, I will get in bed with everybody” but no, am not.

I am not going to say that it’s okay for you to do that because it’s not but..that is your life. So you choose.

But I do pity the wife.

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  • nivea lip care – str

    loyaly is hard to come by now days. the only loyalty you can be sure of is loyalty to one self. in some part of the world they call it selfish…

  • chics

    nik – dua dua saje je tu konon2 caik entertianment.
    amir – i guess so
    bobby – jgn terkejut i dapat mesej dekat myspace cakap that girl shud be given standing ovation plus kite seme di keji ok sbb cakap camni.aku rasela mesti lelaki tu pon ade awek tepi.haha
    laydiefa- tula die, tak pahamlah aku org camni

  • http://laydiefa.silent-echo.org laydiefa

    hahaha!
    cam penah kena kat aku jer citer ni.
    cuma aku tak sampai tahap kawen lagi la.
    dia bagi reason kata 'it's God's fate'
    aku sikit lagi rasa nak muntah jer.
    nak kata bangang, sekolah tinggi.. i hope she knows that the effort comes first, fate comes later. semoga berbahagia la engko pompan..

  • bobby

    ishhh…bukan stakat back-hand..
    flying kick i kasi skali..
    aduhhh…man trying to get someone even if he's married..maybe coz boring…but in the end…
    lepas dia dah tabur benih2..tabur kata2..tabur mcm2 lg laa..lastly dia akan tinggalkan pokok mcm tu jer..
    last2 gals yg merana…
    dont believe this kind of guy(esp yg dah married)….*aduhhh*…

  • http://amiruddin.blogspot.com Amir EtCetera

    People will get what deep within their deepest desire.. and if money is the main agenda. They will get that.. and just that..

  • Nik

    tahnyer… dah tau laki tu ada bini, stay away la awal2… mak aku lain la, bapak aku ngaku bujang masa kawin ngan mak aku kuikuikui…

  • chics

    alamak aku lupa letak nama kat komen2 lain, takpe.
    Ka- sgtla asshole. Kalau bahagis apsalla gatal kote?
    ireen – tula..jenis org yg takde wawasan kot I mean, kalau takde org nak kau buatla bende2 lain.beli rumah ke..ape ke..hesh
    kuman – ye aku tau.ala kuman jgnla marah dekat aku :(.Bukan akula.huk huk.Kuman garang

  • Anonymous

    chi – komfem bongok.tolongla bekhand dia.dgn mak die skali,plis.
    darling – tula..kalau dia buat kat kawan i..iiii jugak yg kene dengan cite die.
    puteree- i know babe,sbb tu aku marah
    9 – yg lelaki tu aku tak kenal so aku malas nak keji,lagipon nanti org cakap aku ni suke male bashinglahapela.tapi sbb yg pompuan tu kawan aku, aku bggla.
    oi – die memang desperet. Desperet and bangang

  • kuman

    yep.. i pity the wife also… just please laa put urself in her(wifey) situation…. karma beb, what goes around comes around… just me 2 cents

  • ireen

    huh the most important thing is jgn percaya sgt kat lelaki skrg.. baik single ke dah kawin ke. same je 2×5.
    bongok ah kawan ko tu chics. dah desperade or gatal benor nak berlaki ke? alah zaman skrg ni kalau perempuan tak kawin pun org bukan kisah sgt.. bukan zaman 60s 70s dulu.
    kawan ko tu mmg carik pasal..

  • http://kepalaangintalk.blogspot.com/ kepalaangin

    "..jantan single tak boleh harap.." –> but those married ones were single before wat. what kind of warped logic is that girl using.
    married guys pun nakal jugak, but they are better at hiding it. dah practise on wife sendiri wat.
    happily married my ass laa. dah happy pun nak buat hal, nanti kalu tak hapi apa lak dia nak buat. such asshole.

  • oi

    what goes around come around…satu hari nanti mesti kawan ko tu kena balik apa yang dia buat kat bini laki tuh…same cam suma orang…pity to the wife…kawan ko tuh nampak cam desperado algojo sangat je…

  • http://hurnain.blogspot.com 9

    chics, tell ur friend to hv some dignity. jangan kacau laki orang la. being desperate is no excuse to ruin someone's marriage.
    mamat tu patut kena backhand gak, sebab dh ada anak, bini pun nak menggatal lg.

  • puteree

    it's not okay!! I've been with that kinda situation.. but, not much longer!! HIM the one realised that what he's doing is not rite!! and back off with the words sorry!! we're still friends and contacting but at heart.. ask your friends to think well!! hidup bermadu susah weih and blum tentu that guy baik as what my HIM did to me..

  • darling8tabby

    ha-ah la…pity the wife. kalo tak pun the kids. now dia bole buat wife dia. nanti dah kawin nanti dia bole buat kat kawan u kan…

  • http://scripturedlies.blogspot.com Chi

    bongoknyer member ko tuh. meh sini aku backhand sepam dua




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