I am sure most of us [especially if you are a woman] know the hottest husband snatcher gossip that dominates FB and online gossips these days.
Reading them makes me angry, I have never condone the act of snatching other people’s partner regardless for whatever reason. And I think I am not the only one looking from all the comments, well cursing is more like it actually that she received. 1.
But there is a tiny part of me feeling pity for her – not because I feel sorry reading the comments, no [although some of them were too harsh and way out of line] but because she doesn’t know that she’s amoral. And perhaps that her reasoning and her capability to use her brain is somewhat limited. I am not being cynical here because I do feel sorry for her.
As much as I am a biggggg fan of good looks, brains – not empty but good, well-reasoned brain is important to me. It’s fine if you don’t have one but when you don’t have one but try so hard to act like you do..it’s just sad to see.
Imagine if she said “Yes, I want to be with him even he is married, we love each other. About the wife, oh well.. I am a bitch so.. yeah. I am the bitch who wants your husband”. There would still be an uproar but at least some people would be gobsmacked, in a different way. Some may view this as a plain stupidity but then again what’s so stupid about being honest?
Oh I forgot, we have to play innocent, suci dan terperangkap dalam something that suddenly we have no control of. You know, the intention is actually pure.
Now that’s me being cynical.
Anyway, believe it or not what repulsed me the most is the man, the husband who choose to sort of defend the girlfriend rather than wife. Like what the fuck?
Isn’t it an unspoken code that a husband is supposed to defend his wife and vice versa? I thought when you got married it’s already known that you are supposed to defend your partner’s dignity. And please don’t say the wife spill the beans first. She might not even do it if not provoked. I mean the husband is still a husband, when the other woman claimed he is a divorcee, what becomes to the supposed-to-be wife then?
Sedih kot your own husband, the one that you trust, your tempat mengadu, the one that you hope to protect you [it's not like you cannot protect yourself but support from the person you love is always an extra boost] suddenly did nothing as if you are just a piece of shit. Your husband’s love is for another woman is another shit but his act of letting you float in a vacuum like a soulless turd is the worst.
Insignificant. It’s like you don’t really mean much to me.
I think that makes the heart berderai even more.
- Just that I disagree when people say bad things about the parents and such ↩