Somebody my age want to make my emak as her emak angkat. They were quite close, going to kelas agama together and such.
To be honest, I don’t like her because she has her own mother, why would she want to ambik my emak as emak angkat. She, infact call her emak but not in front of me of course.
I mean, that is my mom, stop bermanja and menggedik with her, that’s for me to do and not yours. Golah bermanja with your own mother.
The things is, I never really get the idea of this whole ‘angkat’ thing. Abang angkat, adik angkat, emak angkat or whatsoever. What the hell do these terms mean anyway?
When I was younger, I had a guy who asked me whether he can be my abang angkat and both of us kind of like each other [it was a short fling]. I cringed the moment he said it. I like you and you like me so why the hell shoud we pretend that we sort of treat each other like siblings? Not that the ‘angkat’ stuff is sibling pun [which again, what the hell does this 'angkat' thing means?]
The only thing that I understand about the ‘angkat’ term is when we refer to anak angkat. The child become your family, like literally family. Dan takde pulak kau ambik other people’s kid and claim as your anak angkat – I am talking about the official anak angkat here not where some so-called-successful-guy become some anak angkat to datin or something like that.
Sheesh, this whole thing is confusing me.
But what I wanted to say, I don’t like anyone taking away my family members to make as their angkat thingy and I certainly not want to be di angkat-angkat either [ not that anyone want a foul mouth girl[?] to di angkat anyway].
I may lost my dad but I don’t want any other dad, either real or angkat because to me, he is the one and only.
Ok, don’t know what’s the connection but somehow I wanted to type that.
Before you said anything, yes I am a selfish person who doesn’t like to share. Heh